Record Numbers of Students Seek Emotional Support for Anxiety and Depression

The emotional health and well-being of students is being tested since COVID-19 arrived.  The pandemic has impacted many factors of their educational experience leaving some students feeling stressed, anxious, lonely and depressed.

Ordinarily, students embrace the new experience of living and studying away from home with great enthusiasm and excitement.  Students enjoy growing and developing as they find their feet in a whole new world of education.  They learn to budget and cook as well as many other life skills.

The unexpected challenges students are experiencing with online studies, lack of normal supports as well as financial pressures are immense.  Not only that, they too are afraid of contracting the virus or being in quarantine.

The shine has certainly been taken off the experience of going to college.  It should be about new opportunities, new friends and positive experiences not distance learning and isolation, leaving them feeling emotional, alone and vulnerable.

Many student quit college or university because they do not get off to the best start.  This academic year, it is more important than ever that students understand themselves and how they respond to stress and pressure.  They need to know that many others are feeling the same way.  The pandemic is triggering intense emotional experiences for many of us. Students are not alone.

Self care is essential; sleep, exercise and routine have never been more important.  Keeping in touch with friends and family is important.  Engaging in hobbies and online social gatherings can help.

Colleges and universities may provide support services which you can access.  If not, please do not hesitate to contact me.   I may not be in your area, however we can use video calling facilities or I can put you in touch with a qualified and registered therapist in your local area.

The Emotional Impact of Lockdown

Many of us have felt fearful and anxious as the coronavirus Covid19 spread around the world. It quickly reached our neighbourhoods and impacted directly on our lives.  We have worried about our relatives and feared for those with underlying health conditions. While some of us felt alone and vulnerable in isolation others are grieving the loss of their loved ones.  Many people have lost their jobs and some have seen their family business close.

There has been a collective trauma, one we can talk about and share our experience of with friends and family, but what about individual traumas that people suffer alone?  The intensity of lockdown triggered feelings and emotions that have been repressed for years.   Anxieties have played out in peoples’ dreams as they slept at night whilst others tossed and turned trying to sleep.

Emotional suffering can burden and torture the human psyche.  Unfortunately, during times of distress we seek solace in all the wrong places. Contentment and peace of mind will never be found in food, alcohol, drugs, porn, gambling, smartphones or other distractions.

Psychological problems such as depression, anxiety  or other difficulties do not occur in a vacuum.  Lockdown may have triggered unwanted thoughts, feelings and behaviours and even stirred up repressed emotions. Maybe that is an indication that it is time to treat the underlying cause of distress.

The primary aim of therapy is to identify and resolve the underlying originating cause of distress.  If untreated stressful and traumatic experiences become problematic unwanted symptoms of anxiety and depression.

“Our anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strengths.”
C. H. Spurgeon

Insomnia and Sleepless Nights – How to Gain Freedom from Lack of Sleep

If you are reading this you are probably already too familiar with insomnia and sleepless nights. Experts believe that one in three of us suffer from insomnia or sleep related problems at some stage in our lives.  According to the “Truth About Sleep BBC Documentary” we are sleeping almost 2 hours less than we were 60 years ago. 40% of the population are actually getting less than 6 hours sleep per night.

Sleep is a much studied subject and countless researchers and physicians worldwide continue to study the negative affects of lack of sleep. Stanford University  state that there are over 100 different types of sleep disorders ranging from difficulty sleeping at night to problems with excessive daytime sleepiness.

When peoples’ lives are greatly affected by sleep deprivation and they just want to know what they can do about it so that they can get to sleep naturally.

What is Insomnia?

Insomnia is defined as a difficulty falling asleep, difficulty staying asleep, waking up too early, or not getting restful, restorative sleep.

Acute insomnia is defined as insomnia that lasts a few weeks and is usually the result of emotional or physical stress or anxiety.

Chronic insomnia is defined as difficulty sleeping for at least 3 nights a week or more for more that 1 month and is often associated with medical or psychological disorders.

How Does Lack of Sleep Affect Your Health?

Everybody has a broken night’s sleep every now and then but when it happens more often it may be affecting your overall health.

Symptoms of insomnia include lack of energy, problems with memory or concentration, daytime sleepiness, impairments to attention and memory, poor performance and problems with family due to irritability. Lack of sleep alters a person’s mood and can predispose then to anxiety, depression and other mood related disorders.

There is lots of evidence to show that lack of sleep can also contribute to weight gain and type 2 diabetes, as people reach for carbohydrate and sweet foods as their glucose levels have been affected by lack of sleep.

Our thoughts, feelings and beliefs about sleep play an important role in getting a comfortable nights sleep.  Whether you lie awake worrying about the future or ruminating about the past everyone can learn the skill of stilling the mind.  If reoccurring dreams keep you awake, then perhaps your mind is trying to resolve something that therapy can further facilitate.

Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy for Insomnia and Sleep Related Problems

There’s lots of evidence supporting hypnotherapy and psychotherapy is one of the most effective ways of treating insomnia and sleep related problems. The word hypnosis is from the Greek god of sleep and is effective in training the mind and body to relax deeply.  The treatment for insomnia includes the use of therapeutic interventions to establish and ultimately ease the conscious or subconscious reasons why you may like awake at night.

“I love sleep. My life has the tendency to fall apart when I’m awake, you know?”
– Ernest Hemingway

Poor sleep, insomnia and sleep related problems can have a huge impact on your health and wellbeing, leaving you feeling exhausted and worn-out.  If you are not getting adequate or restorative sleep and would like to find out how hypnotherapy and psychotherapy can help, please give me a call.